Heart to Heart: Modesty Matters

Check out my latest video on why modesty matters!

Heart to Heart: Modest Is Hottest

It seems that with warmer weather comes smaller clothes. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you have to dress like a nun or anything, but this excuse of "It's too hot to dress modest" is not a good excuse at all. Do we see men running around in belly shirts and booty shorts? Absolutely not. I guarantee they are just as hot as we are in the summer sun but they don't use that as an excuse to show all kinds of skin, and neither should we.

Listen ladies, we can always come up with some kind of justification for doing the wrong thing, "it's too hot" OR "it's the trend", the excuses go on and on....but if we want to represent Christ and display the beauty of womanhood then we need to cover up our body and put our true valuables, which is our heart and humility on display. 

Women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control. - 1 Timothy  2:9

There are plenty of cute clothes out there that can keep you cool AND keep you classy. Show the world that modest is hottest!

Need a few ideas? Check out some suggestions HERE.

Summer Style Guide

You don't have to sacrifice style in order to dress modestly in the hot summer months. Here are a few ideas for staying cool and staying classy for summer.

One piece swimsuits keep you covered and classy by the pool or beach

This one is from southbeachswimsuits.com

Looking for something slightly more youthful? Try the tankini style swimsuit
This one is from macys.com

Wide-strap, sleeveless dresses that hit just above the knee will keep you cool and classy for summer. This one is from forever21.com

This pretty floral print sundress is from The Loft

You don't have to sacrifice style in order to wear shorts

This bohemian style is from calypsostbarth.com

This is another fashionable pair of shorts for summer.
Photo credit here: chictopia.com

Skirts are a great choice for keeping cool and feeling feminine

This one is from target.com

This tailored skirt is from gap.com

Tank tops with wider straps are more flattering than skinny straps 

(also you don't have to worry about bra straps showing)

This one is by Lauren Conrad and is available at kohls.com

These simple tanks are available just about everywhere.
They can be layered and paired with most outfits.

Hope this was helpful! Stay classy! :)

20 Simple Style Secrets

1.  Understand your body type and the best styles for your shape. Dressing for your body type is key. What body shape are you? Find out HERE.

2.  If you are wearing skinny jeans or leggings on bottom wear a baggy flowy top.  If you are wearing bigger boyfriend jeans or wide legs, stick to something more tailored on top.

3.  Try synching in oversized tops or blouses with a waist belt or throw a fitted jacket over the top to accentuate your waist and give a more slimming effect.

4. Understand the colors that suit you best. Some people look best in cool, blue-based colors, some people look best in warm, yellow based-colors, others can wear some of each. Not sure which colors best suit you? Check out this more in depth Seasonal Color Chart.

5.   If you are going to do a pop of color, don't do it with every accessory you are wearing.  For example: If you have a black dress...don't wear yellow heels, a yellow purse, yellow bracelets etc. 

6.  If you are having trouble accessorizing an outfit decide if its black based or brown based!  Choose either black or brown shoes and purse... then accessorize from there!  Browns tend to go great with golds, and blacks go great with silver (but don't limit yourself.)

7.  Bright colors bring attention to an area.  Place them carefully on the body to extenuate your features.

8.  V-necks will lengthen the neck and give the illusion of a longer leaner body. But make sure it isn't too low cut.

9.  Dark denim also gives the long lean effect...and can make an outfit appear more dressy.

10.  If you want to make yourself look taller and slimmer, try vertical stripes...stay away from horizontal stripes.

11.  If you want to combine brown and black together into an outfit easily... pick a piece that has both colors in it. (A scarf for example)

12.  Wide sleeved tank tops are actually more slimming and flattering. Avoid thin straps.

13.  Do a sit and reach test to determine if your outfit is modest. If you sit down and your skirt reveals the majority of your thigh...it's too short. If you reach your arms up and your stomach shows...your shirt is too short. If you bend down and you can see down your top you should wear a more close fitting undershirt or cami that will be less revealing.

14.  Nude heels make your legs look long and can be paired with just about any color outfit.

15.  Dress age appropriate. Dressing too young for your age can actually make you appear much older.

16.  Earrings are a great way to frame your face...especially when you wear your hair pulled back.

17.  Always layer sheer tops and wear a slip underneath skirts and dresses to prevent revealing undergarments.

18. Never compromise on fit. If an item can't be altered or you're not prepared to spend the money on an alteration, don't buy it.

19. One statement piece of jewelry can completely transform the simplest outfit!  Incorporate long necklaces, big intricate bracelets, and funky earrings.

20. Dress to honor your Creator. This is the most important item on the list. Be mindful of what you are putting on your body. Our bodies are holy sanctuaries and should be treated as such.

Heart to Heart: Modesty Is Always Beautiful

Beth Moore delivers a powerful message of truth about modesty and self-worth in the following video clip. She does a great job of bringing understanding that our heart should be exposed for the world to see, not our bodies.



We as women need to examine our motives and our intent for the way we dress. Is our goal to show the grace and beauty of womanhood? To reveal a humble heart devoted to Christ? OR is our goal to draw attention to ourselves and to flaunt our beauty....or worse....to attempt to lure men sexually? Our wardrobe is a public statement of our personal motivation.

Ladies, what are you more noticed for? Your clothes....or your heart? What are you known for...fashion or grace? What is most eye catching about you...your clothing or your character?

A modest heart always precedes a modest dress.

Outfit Of The Day: Orange and Turquoise

This is probably one of my favourite summer outfits. I love the bright colors and classy feel of this look. I'm a huge fan of turquoise and I think these accessories combined with the orange skirt really makes for a fun, vibrant outfit that's perfect for summer.

*all items were purchased at H&M

Classy Cues:

• choose skirts and dresses that hit below or slightly above the knee
• wear wide sleeve tanks as opposed to spaghetti straps
• layer sheer tops to prevent exposed undergarments
• stay away from form fitting clothes that leave little to the imagination
• avoid low cut tops that will distract from your face